Another drive day what should’ve only been 9 hours Took 12 due to some expected and some unforeseen circumstances.
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Wednesday, July 28, 2021
Day 32- Travel wall
Tuesday, July 27, 2021
Toll Free- Day 31
Today was a travel day. I hit and surpassed the 7000 mile mark. That's So many miles. Today it felt like I could feel each one of those miles in my bones. The more likely culprit is that I am sore from paddle boarding (and falling off said paddle board), but I'm hitting travel walls too.
I keep reminding myself the point is this trip is to go slow but that's hard when you have 2 10+ hour drive days back to back. I can't believe I've done this drive straight at a previous point in my life. 20 hours in a car is NUTS. But my goal if not paying tolls is still a goal that I am doing my best to keep alive. Today and tomorrow are the hardest part on that. After this is done it will be home free on the tolls.
Today I left my grandma's place at a reasonable time. Went and spent a little more time with Holly- She made me an amazing Matcha latte before I left.
When I was a kid leaving Rochester wasn't hard because while they were family, we rarely saw each other and didn't have a close relationship. As an adult leaving has gotten harder, especially after living in New York for several years. This trip especially was tough to leave because I really got a chance to spend quality time with some of my cousins and it's tough to know it will likely be at least another year before I see them in person again.
I made 1 last stop at Wegmans for Almond cookies and white hots before filling the car with gas and hitting the road.
My toll free route came in at 582 miles and just over 9 hours of drive time; though the trip itself actually took me 11 hours due to need to stop, get gas, use the facilities, and get food. This trip in order to get in before dark, I stopped at Whole Foods and picked up a chicken salad and some dim sum put them in the cooler and at them when I got to the hotel.
Hotel Review: Delta Hotel by Marriott
Pro: Free Wifi, Free Parking, Comfy bed (pillowtop but supportive), sitting area, TV, desk and chair, Nightstands, lamps and outlets, powerful A/C, coffee maker (If that's your thing), Mini fridge
Cons: I have a pool view room ( rooms that face an interior court yard with a pool and work out space) Because i'm on the 3rd floor in the back it's not too loud, but the smell of Chlorine is intense, no free breakfast
Honestly this was such a quick stop over. I got in after 9pm and I'll likely be out before 9am tomorrow I'm just thankful for a comfortable bed after an 11 hour drive day
Monday, July 26, 2021
Rochester- Days 27-30
Day 27 (Thursday)
Lunch with Ms. K |
Today was the official start of working my way back to Washington. I left Wehle in the morning and had lunch in Syracuse with a former colleague, amazing friend and wonderful human- Ms. K We had lunch at The Retreat in Liverpool. As I came in to town I was blown away by the new Amazon fulfillment center- it's massive. So much has changed in Syracuse since I left 6 years ago. There are some days I cannot believe it was that long ago, and others it feels so much longer.
After lunch with Ms. K I made a stop at what use to be a favorite Winery- Montezuma. But over the course of the las 6 years I've gone from liking wines with high residual sugar contents to wanting residual sugars between 1-3%- many of Montezuma's wines have over 6%- they are just too sweet for me now- so maybe it's good I'm on the west coast as many Finger Lakes wines are sweet. I did pick up a bottle of Maple Liqueur- I know it sounds really sweet and crazy after the comment I just made, but its so good added to maple syrup- it really amps up the french toast or bread pudding game.
After the vineyard I made my way on to Pittsford and my grandma's place. I dropped off my things, changed and we left for dinner at Lento in Rochester with 2 of my cousins (H and A). They all had the steelhead- which looked amazing, but I decided for full on comfort food in the form on pillowy soft gnocchi. They also have a great cocktail menu, we all got something different and on Tuesdays they have $1 Oysters if that's your thing (not mine).
After dinner I was very tired, so we came home- I unloaded the dishwasher from grandma- She hurt her shoulder and is very limited in terms of movement right now- so I'm happy to help in return for the free place to stay and we headed to bed early.
Day 28 (Friday)
Every day feels like the weekend when you are on the road this long - 4 weeks now. So I find it's best if I write the day of the week next to the day I am posting about to keep myself focused
I did not sleep well last night. On the nights I sleep well I sleep all through the night, on the nights I don't I'm consistent in the lack of sleep- Usually get to sleep around 9:30- Up at 1:30, Up again at 4:30- at this point I'm usually just up and feel like I'm dragging most of the day, or until I can catch a nap (90 minutes at least)
Lunch was at Genesee Brew House for a tasting flight and a Zweigles White Hot with Pepper and Onions. The combination of the onions peppers and citrus beers unfortunately left me with heartburn and the feeling of getting old, but nothing is better than a White Hot in the summer in Upstate NY- maybe salt potatoes.
White Hot and beer flight Rochester, NY |
After lunch I came back to grandma's to take a much needed nap, so that I could enjoy my cousins in the evening.
Bath Bomb Beers at Fifth Frame Rochester, NY |
After my much needed nap (at least 90 minutes) I headed over to my cousin H's place. She has a home that looks like a little English Cottage. The inside is perfect for her and very instagram worthy. We went out for beers at Fifth Frame in Rochester. I have gotten their Bath Bomb Fruit smoothie beers in my Tavour* box before and was excited to try more options. I got 2 4oz pours of the 2 Bath Bombs that they had on Tap- Guava Guava Raspberry and Pineapple Orange Banana. I was able to get a 4 pack of the Guava to go- which is good because I have significantly depleted my 903 beers. I'll only have 4 left to go home with me to Minnesota- Not planning for any to make it back to Washington- they've been really fun to share.
Feeling just hungry enough for small plates we tried a few other venues before settling on Sheffield Tavern. I got a can of an unfiltered Cider- that reminded me why I prefer unfiltered- so good (Downeast Cider) and the three of us split 3 apps. The Corned Beef Poutine was really good- not Canadian good, but still tasty.
We headed back to Holly's house after dinner and drinks and took Marley (the dog) for a walk before I headed home to grandma's. Tonight was a late one- not in bed until after 10:30- Wowza I've gotten old.
Day 29 (Saturday)
Lake Life & Hank Hugs
Holly's Parents- Deb and Steve have a place on one of the local finger lakes next to Deb's dad who I am happy to adopt as an additional grandparent. Additionally we had Holly's do Marlee and the family dog Hank- who I love so much and really miss when I'm not in Rochester. So I was good to be able to get some Hank snuggles on this trip.
Holly and I drove out Saturday by 1pm I had a drink in my hand and we enjoying lake life at it's finest -- Thanks and Shout out to uncle Steve for keeping the beer fridge stocked!
Holly and I started a puzzle before going out on the boat for a lake tour- we should have done a better job covering it up as when we came back about 1/3 of the puzzle was missing--- the culprit---Hank the dog.
Such is life. We started a second puzzle on a higher table before dinner and quickly got the edges worked out. A little before dinner our cousin A came to the lake to join us. We had an AMAZING dinner- aunt Deb enjoys cooking for us, and we enjoy eating it! Potatoes, onions and squash, grilled chicken, veggies and rice and local sweet corn. The corn wasn't Minnesota Sweet, but it was good. Tillamook Ice Cream for dessert was a little taste of home- Yummy! We finished up the puzzle before turning in for the night.
I got another great night sleep. With the exception of a lightning strike in the wee hours of the morning that was so bright it woke up the whole house, I slept wonderfully. I love listening to the water hit the shore line while I sleep. Seriously something to aspire for.
Day 30 (Sunday) Last day
After getting a wonderful night sleep I woke up around 8:30 to the offer of an amazing breakfast and Chai Tea the same way I make it - with a little milk/cream and honey. Thank you again to aunt Deb.
Breakfast was great- bacon, eggs toast, and more tea.
Before the lake got too hoppin' for the day, Holly and I went out on the paddle boards. I'll be honest, I'm not a great swimmer, so my biggest fear is always falling off and not being able to get back on. But I am pleased to say, I fell off and was able to pull myself back on the board without issue. I spent about 1/3 of the time standing, 1/3 sitting and 1/3 kneeling. I felt most stable kneeling on the board. It was a great work out for my whole body- hopefully it's something J and I can do together next summer in Washington.
We relaxed inside for a bit and gave my aunt some make up tips and suggestions before taking a dip in the water. It's cold as you enter, but feels refreshing quickly there after. We stayed outside for about an hour- alternating between conversations and catching up with each other and throwing the ball to the dogs in the lake.
We ate a large salad before packing up and heading out. It was a great 24 hours at the lake with family that I love and I miss it already.
Dinner: Pittsford Pub with grandma, uncle J and his with T. We had a few drinks and dinner and nice catch up conversation. I had a Beef on Weck- another Upstate staple food- (A typical beef on weck is made from slow-roasted rare roast beef that is hand-carved in thin slices, served on a kummelweck roll topped with salt and caraway seeds.)
Drinks with Cousin Z, his fiancée L and my cousin Holly at Lock 32 for a beer and conversation. It's been so long since I've seen Z and L that it was just nice to have time to sit and catch up on some of the happenings of life and upcoming travel plans. Hopefully they can visit Seattle in the next few years- we'd love to have them.
Off to bed- tomorrow I hit the road again.
-C
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Thursday, July 22, 2021
North Country- Days 25-26
NY to me means family. My dad grew up here, many of my aunts, uncles and cousins live in NY, and especially after the last 2 years that we've had, it's really exciting to just get to be with family.
This summer my aunt T and her husband got a compound in Robert Wehle State Park on Lake Ontario and it has room for family- which I am so thankful for. I am also grateful that today is a light drive day- only. a few hours.
Prior to getting up to the Cabin however I had a few things I needed to stop and do
- Wegman's - Yes I have to go to a Grocery store and no this will not be my last time in a Wegman's before I leave NY- If you've never been in a Wegman's you just don't get it.
- Oil Change - I am over 6000 miles and this feels like the appropriate thing to do after the wear and tear I have put my car through over the last 24 days.
- Biscotti Cafe & Bakery for the best Italian cannolis and cakes in Syracuse.
Lake life!
My Uncle is from the Henderson area and much of his family has lake homes for the summer up there. This summer they rented in a place in Wehle state park. It was PERFECT. Secluded, quite, peaceful, disconnected (hence why this blog is late) but so great to just forget about any worry of life and just relax with family.
The first night I was there we went out to dinner at a local brewery in Watertown, NY - Garland City Beer Works. Not only do they have a great tap list, but they also do craft cocktails and have an extensive food menu with choice of proteins ( beef, chicken or portobello mushroom) for nearly all their entree options which is great when out with large groups of people.On my second day I spent most of the day relaxing either in the window seat with tea or in an Adirondack chair with a beer- really the best way to spend the summer. My cousins and I decided we needed to swim and went over to another family member's property as she has more accessible water front. Let's be clear though it's not a beach as most people thing about it- this isn't sandy- it's a 3 foot strip of rocks accessible by a stair case to the Lake. But we all did it, we all went full into the lake. My cousins lasted considerably longer than I did. I was more than content to say I did it, to check it off my list and to sit in the sun. We then went back to the compound for dinner- so nice to have another homemade meal. Eating out is fun, but after weeks on the road, home cooked meals are everything. We had pork tenderloin (already a personal fave), roasted potatoes with very caramelized onions and broccoli.
I swear the 2 nights I spent at the lake have been the best nights of sleep I've had this who trip. The breeze through the window- no A/C noise, just the sound of waves hitting rocks. Seriously perfection.
This morning- (day 27) I woke up early (before 8) had tea and an English muffin, worked on a puzzle for a few hours with my uncle and cousin. Moved all of my Cousin A's stuff out of my car (I drove stuff out here for her move from WA to ME, because I was coming eventually) and packed my stuff up to go. After saying goodbye I hit the road for Wine country. ---However, life happens and in all the saying goodbye I forgot my purse and wallet at the compound-- realized this in Mexico so I turned around and drove about 30 miles back, retrieved my purse and wallet- said goodbye again and got on the road- for real this time.
I would happily spend every summer day that that lake house. It was actually really lovely to be disconnected from the world- to not be able to call or text unless you walked way out into the yard, to not have access to the internet- and to not have the world have access to me. It reminded me how important truly disconnected time is in life.
Signing off for now
-C
Tuesday, July 20, 2021
Day 24- Back to New York
When you tell people you live in New York, everyone assumes the city, but there is so much more to the state than that--See Really Big State.
It's been 5 years since I've spent any time in Central NY, though technically this evening was spent in the Finger Lakes.
Today was a drive day- an 8 hour drive day from Rosslyn to Auburn. I passed 6000 miles on the car and will be getting an oil change in the next week because it's time. - My last oil change was a month ago...so that's a new record for me, so I thought I'd take a minute to reflect on where all the milestones have happened.
Links correspond to Blog Posts
1000 miles- Just shy of Napa, CA
2000 miles- Needles, CA
3000 miles- Cadillac Ranch
4000 miles- Honestly I forget where this happened- Probably somewhere in Mississippi.
5000 miles- Greensboro, NC
I stayed in Auburn and hung out with friends from Work (yes work in Washington) in the Skaneateles area. I am so appreciative they let me come out for dinner, it was great to see familiar faces and fun to watch small children launch and chase after rockets. Also go to share a few good beers with friends which is really all I can ask for.
Hotel Review: Inn at the Finger Lakes
Pros- Affordable (Under $80 a night), free parking, free wifi, mini fridge, microwave, single serve coffee maker, hanging and drawer space, 2 nightstands, window seat, TV, full bathroom, Elevator, Ice machine and vending available
Cons:
- Very small room- Think NYC hotel room small, just enough room to walk on both sides of the bed but not enough room to open a full sized suitcase and still move freely.
- Parking lot is full of pick up trucks with a bunch of young guys drinking bud light
- Door must be pushed/ pulled shut, I found it slightly open- (unnerving for a solo female traveler and it looks like someone had recently tried to break in through the door.
- Very thin walls- Heard neighbors alarm at 4am
- Pet Friendly (Yes I understand for many this is a pro- but as someone who is super allergic-I can tell there have been animals in this room)
Okay that's it for today
-Signing off for now
-C
Monday, July 19, 2021
Long weekend in DC- Days 21-23
Evening of Day 21 (Friday)
After getting to my hotel around 4pm I took a much needed nap before dinner. Driving in the DC metro is active driving. There is no setting the cruise control and jamming out here--at least not for me. So the drive while shorter than many this trip really wore me out.
I walked to a local place: Barley Mac for dinner. I had the most wonderful fig and prosciutto pizza with goat cheese, arugula and balsamic. I got bread pudding to go, and after some of the amazing bread puddings I've had in the south, this was nothing to write home about.
I talked with the hubby a bit over google- thank god for video calls, and called it a night.
Day 22 (Saturday):
Lesson learned- I will always check to see if the alarm clock is set in my hotel rooms in the future. This one was, for 6am. I was not ready to be awake at 6am, but I also had no idea how to turn it off, so I unplugged it. I managed to sleep another 90 minutes before actually waking up for the day. I slathered myself in sunscreen from Head to toe and started off into my journey for the day.
Given that the first half of my day was entirely on foot, it's less about stops and more about the paths I took.
I started the day walking to Roosevelt Island. While I've made nearly a dozen trips to DC over the years, I've never done this. You'll find that's a theme this trip--doing things I've never done.
As I entered the Island (which is about a mile from my hotel), I noticed that there was a race starting on the trail loop. They were doing a staggered start time, which meant I would have to deal with runners for awhile. - Which I didn't want to do, so I saw the monument and walked back off the island and headed towards Georgetown. My initial thought was to have brunch in Georgetown, but I decided against it, and just kept walking. I realized I was only 2 miles away from the National Mall on foot, so I set off to do that. The walk from Georgetown to the national Mall is beautiful. There was a detour, but it was still lovely. You pass by the Watergate Complex and the Kennedy Center before continuing down the path and arriving at the back side of the Lincoln memorial.
I decided to walk toward the Holocaust museum as I was going to try to get Day of Tickets (they hold a few tickets for each time slot in reserve for release at 11am each day). I was lucky enough to get an entry ticket with the first group at 11am. I spent over 2 hours in the museum the last hour of which I spent in tears. I started to cry during the audio theatre presentation of survivors sharing their memories and completely lost it when I saw the shoes and read the corresponding quote
from Prague, Paris, and Amsterdam.
And because we are only made of fabric and leather-
and not of blood and flesh-
each one of us avoided the Hellfire"
-Moses Schulstein - Yiddish
It's so important that we take the time to learn about the past so we can work tirelessly to stop it from repeating itself. There was a description early on in the museum about how the conservative party members underestimated Hitler and the liberals were naive to how volatile he would become. I instantly thought of the last 6 years, the rise of Donald Trump to power, the efforts to dismantle democracy the lack of accountability even amongst his own party. We owe it to future generations to always keep asking "Why?" and to never stop holding those in power accountable.
As an educator I would suggest this museum to families with kids in 6th grade and up. There were a lot of small and elementary aged children when I went through who were really struggling with the pacing of the museum, the quietness, the lack of interactives and the subject matter/imagery.I also watched as several parents lied to their children about what they were looking at, which IMO isn't helpful- So if you think you need to lie about images of bodies or crematoriums, your kid probably isn't ready for this museum.
After the museum I was very hungry, having only had a granola bar for breakfast. I stopped at a street vendor and got a Lamb Gyro- it was very tasty.
After my lunch on the lawn of the National Mall, I made the responsible decision to take the metro back to my hotel. -My feet were thankful as it would have been a 3+ mile walk to add to an already long day. Before getting back to my hotel I did stop at a grocer to pick up more water, gatorade and some fresh fruit, so I can make healthy snacking choices.
Once I got back to my hotel I took a much needed cool shower and curled up to relax for the afternoon.
"Morning walk"- 8 miles (16,165 steps) and 6 flights of stairs.
Dinner- Crafthouse-Arlington- Skip it. While the tap list is good and has a fair amount of variety, the food wasn't very good and the service was worse. When managers treat their staff like crap (yes I watched it happen) then staff don't feel a desire to work hard or provide good service to costumers, leading to costumers not wanting to spend their money there. Normally I would have stayed for a second beer, but I had no interest in spending any more time or money there.
Glad I had some fruit and mochi ice cream back at my hotel so I could still have something sweet tonight.
With dinner I took the train, but still added about a mile and half to my day. (19,091 steps total)
Day 23 (Sunday)
Started the day off with the Spy Museum, while this is a fee-ticketed museum, it's certainly a lot of fun. Lots of interesting things to look at and many interactive stations to help you move your way through the museum. I saw a lot of smaller children in there who were struggling, but I'd say it's a really good fit for finishing 3rd grade and up. After the museum I grabbed a Fried Chicken Sandwich- Not nearly as tasty as my Lamb Gyro yesterday, but filled me up, and I walked to the white house. Through the many layers of gates I could see bee keepers and was pleasantly surprised to learn that the white house keeps bees. I learned that the Obama's brought the bees to the property in early 2016.Rosslyn Station Escalator |
I relaxed in my hotel room, ate some fruit and veggies and took a nap.
In the afternoon/evening I connected with an old friend for a Wine tasting and Dinner.
Winery: Paradise Springs
They had 2 tasting options- An all Red flight and a mixed red & whit flight. I chose the latter. Of the 6 wines in the flight, I enjoyed all but 1 red, which was just too earthy for me. But I do like that I am finding I can enjoy a red wine in small quantities. I'm certainly not going to finish off. a bottle of red with a friend like I can a bottle of white in the summer, but I appreciate that I am finding that not all reds are bad.
Dinner: Silver Diner
Elevated diner favorites. The menu is extensive. I stayed a bit more traditional and had a burger- it was nicely elevated beyond what I would normally expect at a diner as it was bison with pesto. But I'm a fan of any place with good costumer service that does food well and this checked that box.
I got back to my hotel late in the evening and crashed after a long day (Total steps 9,859)
This was overall a very different trip to DC than I've done before, which is exactly what I wanted. I wasn't trying to fit everything in. I've seen all the monuments and memorials. I've been to nearly every Smithsonian. I am thankful that this time I saw DC from a different perspective.
Hotel Review: Hyatt Centric
Pros: Parking included, Free wifi, Tv, Mini Fridge, Keurig (with coffee and Tea options), Safe in room, Comfy (firm) bed with lots of fluffy blankets and pillows, Hanging Closet space, close to Rosslyn Station Metro Stop- Orange, Blue and Silver lines, Affordable compared to DC hotels of similar caliber.
Cons: I'm right next to the elevator- (the noise at night wasn't a problem but it's really loud during the day), large hold charge on Credit card - (significantly greater than others on this trip), No Microwave, no drawer space, no restaurant, breakfast or room service due to covid.
Neutral- Accessible room-- This is never something I ask for as I am "able bodied" I put it in quotes because sometime motor planning and movement can be hard, but I have legs that carry me on long walks and would never want to take an accessible room away from someone who really does need it. That said, there are certainly things about this space that I do like. The way the outlets and light switches are set up are easier for me to access and use. There is more space. The bathroom has a handheld shower wand, and a bench in the shower both of which make showering so much easier. --(For those who don't know me well, taking a shower can be incredibly draining for me, so having a seat is a blessing).
Signing off for now
-C
Saturday, July 17, 2021
Day 21-Coast-To-Coast
International Small Craft Center |
Elite Sailing Vessels |
After spending a few hours at the museum I went to Hampton, VA and walked in the Atlantic. On day 1 I ran in the Pacific Ocean and on Day 21 I ran in the Atlantic. This journey has been incredible so far and I look forward to many more adventures to come.
Pacific Ocean on the Left Atlantic Ocean on the Right |
I will share the rest of my day 21 post when I my next stop update.
Signing off for now
-C
Friday, July 16, 2021
Day 20- Williamsburg
Well 20 days into the trip and I finally made it to the East Coast.
I've been exhausted ALL DAY. I woke up exhausted in Greensboro due to a lack of sleep. I arrived to Colonial Williamsburg exhausted. I left Colonial Williamsburg Hot, sweaty and exhausted and then I actually did things in the evening. Hopefully all of this exhaustion actually allows me to sleep tonight.Stop 1: Prior to leaving Greensboro I knew it was important to see the Woolworths sit-in location. While I was unable to go inside and see the museum as I left so early it still felt important to provide time and space in my day to stop and see the building.
Spinning and Weaving |
Governor's Palace |
Church |
Blacksmith and Foundry |
Wythe House |
Stop 2: Colonial Williamsburg. This place turned me on to history as a middle schooler. It quite literally came alive and I fell in love with the thought of reenactments. 12-year old Claire was set on working there someday. While that hasn't happened yet, maybe someday. I did learn about a teacher summer program that they offer (in non-pandemic times) that I am going to look into for the future. I spent 4 hours and walked over 4 miles exploring the grounds of the immense living history museum. While much was closed today, it was still lovely and due to there being so few people I also got several solo tours of buildings and shops which was lovely as I am overwhelmed by large groups of people.
I took lots of pictures- please enjoy them.
Dropped everything off the at the hotel, took a quick cold shower before heading out for the evening.
Jars fo Honey, Mead Flight and Honey Tasting |
Stop 4: Fin for seafood dinner. Totally a treat to self meal. I started with the Sweet Corn and lump crab soup. The sweet corn flavor was perfection and the amount of lump crab in the soup was impressive. Honestly one of the best bites I've had on this trip! For my entree I had scallops over a risotto. Initially in reading the menu I was excited for the black garlic demi glaze, unfortunately there was just too much of it and it overpowered the delicacy of the scallop. It was still tasty, but not what I expected.
Total distance walked today: 9,651 steps and 5 flights of stairs.
Hotel Review Wyndham Garden: Busch Gardens
Pros: Strong A/C, Convenient to the HW, wifi, microwave, fridge, TV, free parking, elevator, breakfast included, outlets on nightstand, coin-op laundry available
Cons: Check in isn't til 4pm, close location to a water park/theme park means lots of kids running around the halls = loud even late at night, not walking distance to any restaurants.
Signing off for now
-C
Thursday, July 15, 2021
Day 19- 5000 miles
Today I surpassed 5000 miles on this road trip. Today was a DRIVE DAY. The point was to get me as close as I could in a day to my destination for tomorrow. 10 hours on the road is my limit, so thats what I did, and ended up in Greensboro where I will be spending the night and waking up for a full day tomorrow at my next destination. Honestly pretty short and boring blog today, but I said I would post every stop so here it is.
I pulled into town in the midst of a thunderstorm. Lots of lightening, lots of rain. Not conditions, that I feel like going out in, in a city I am not familiar with. So I ordered delivery.
Dinner- Take out from Mac's Speed Shop- BBQ. There is no such thing as TOO much BBQ in my humble opinion. I got a small pork order with grits and hush puppies. This is Vinegar based BBQ, so different, but still YUMMY. Actually the right portion size for me. The Grits may have been a little rich for me, but they were so tasty. And much needed to really feel like I did the south.
hotel Review: Hyatt Place Greensboro
Pros: Large Room divided into living room and sleeping space. Desk w/chair, Wet bar with sink and mini fridge, TV, Full bathroom, large sofa, Easy access to the HW, Strong A/C
Cons: Couldn't connect to the Wifi on my computer or phone, no outlets in the bedroom space or on the nightstands, Significant street noise, Bathroom sink is located in the main living space over carpet, I'm located on the 1st floor with a view of the parking lot so I cannot have my curtains open :(
Signing off for now
C
Wednesday, July 14, 2021
Day 18- A day for rest
So I missed my In-laws in Seattle, because I had just left on my road trip when their vacation started, so I had to make a stop in to see them. Today/night was to really rest and restore and get ready for my east coast travel. To say I am exhausted is an understatement.
I made it to Hendersonville around lunch time and had a nice lunch with my mother father and sister -in law. I got a salad with grilled chicken. It was huge, but felt really good to eat something healthy. I then did laundry and slept for several hours. It was lovely. My mother-in-law and I went to Pelicans for sno-cones in the evening. We had real conversation and it was nice to get to spend time with her. I wish I had more time to spend with family, but this was just a stop over for rest before a long travel day tomorrow.
Signing off for now
-c
Tuesday, July 13, 2021
Days 16 &17- Memphis
Day 16- Driving Mississippi- No really I spent 10 hours driving from New Orleans to Memphis via the nearly the entire state of Mississippi. If I'd done it just on the HW, I could have kept it to 6 hours and 400 miles. But straight through and fast aren't really the POINT of this road trip, so clearly that's not what I did. Instead my route was 10 hours (including stops) and over 500 miles.
Confederate Camel |
Stop 2: Blue Front Cafe- I know they have an annual blues fest, that's probably worth the stop, but the cafe isn't. It's filled with photos but no information or reference and looks like a strong wind could blow it over. They look to sell t-shirts and soda pop and everyone inside is smoking- so not a pleasant place to spend much time.
Stop 3: Little Zion Mission Baptist Church: Final Resting spot of Robert Johnson. I was the only person here and the place really made my skin crawl and the hair on the back of my neck stand up. The 2 individuals present at his funeral- the man who dug his grave and the grave digger's wife, have identified this as the location of his grave.
Robert Johnson Collage |
Dockery Farms, MS |
Stop 5: The Crossroads- The "proclaimed" spot where legend has it Robert Johnson sold his soul to the devil to become a famous blues musician.
Stop 6: Stovall Farms- Birth place of Muddy Waters (Please note the actual home is no loner on the property it is now in a museum)
Dinner with my Cousin V- at Central BBQ. YUMMY. I am excited to be in the neck of the woods where I can get my fill of BBQ.
Staying with Family in Memphis Area
Day 17- Memphis with Meemaw --That's grandmother for those of you not from the south- she is Jon's grandma
Peabody Ducks, Peabody Hotel, Memphis, TN |
Lunch: Huey's for a burger.
Stop 2: National Civil Rights Museum @ The Lorraine Motel. Meemaw is from Memphis and was working downtown the day Martin Luther King Jr. was shot and killed. She shared some stories of her experiences with segregation in the south growing up. It was really nice to have some 1:1 dedicated time with just here. She had never done the museum before so it was nice to share that experience with her as well.
National Civil Rights Museum Memphis, TN |
Dinner: The Beauty Shop- Cute place use to be a beauty parlor, it still has hair dryers above some of the chairs. Dinner was okay- mostly cared about the company (My wonderful extended in-laws on my husbands- mother's side). Looks like a really cute brunch spot though if you're in the area.
Photos with V at the I love Memphis sign |
Stop 4: DONUTS - From Gibsons. We got ours for free, because V know's a girl. You don't have to do fancy stuff to be good, tonight I had a great raised chocolate donut. Not too sweet, super fluffy. Yum!
Gibson's Donuts |
I have hit the "Wall" of my road trip. That 500 mile/10 hour day on Sunday really wore me out. I just want to curl up in a ball and rest. Thankfully that's what I get to do tomorrow- bad news I'll still have to drive 4 hours to get there. I am so thankful to the family members that made this stop so much fun.
Accommodation Review: Okay I said I would not be reviewing family, but she asked for it, so here it is V.
Pros: FREE, wifi included, Comfy (firm Bed), On suite bathroom, Free parking, Clean sheets, good (real bed) pillows, great tour guide, Neat private space, space in the fridge for beer,
Cons: Steps to apt., Rest of apartment needed a good "Once over" (I can't talk though my cleaning habits aren't great).
But in all honesty it was so nice to spend time with J's family. I feel like I now know V and Meemaw much better now and it was so nice to get to really spend time with family.
Signing off for now
-C
Sunday, July 11, 2021
Days 14 &15- New Orleans
Day 14: I wasn't quite done with Natchetoches (Nack-A-Tish) Yet so I did the Oakland Plantation self-guided tour. While there are rubberized mats down to even out the terain and provide a trail, they were still very up even and slick, and may be difficult for some individuals to navigate. They did however, have wheelchair lifts to view the inside of some of the spaces. It was a nice way to kick off my day. I then got on the road down to New Orleans. The drive went a lot faster than expected and I got into town around 3pm, just in time for lightning to strike and a thunderstorm to pass over. But there isn't much wind and I'm not one to let a little rain ruin my day.
I grabbed an early dinner as take out from Willie Mae's so that I could nap and then decide where I wanted to go in the evening. At the recommendation of nearly every online site I got the fried chicken sandwich - sans pickle Ooh She's SPICY. Edible but my lips are burning. I also got the bread pudding which sounded great- served with white chocolate and rum sauce. However I got it back to my Airbnb and discovered its served with strawberries. And its clearly been packaged and sitting together for awhile so I was unsure about eating it. [for those who don't know, I'm allergic to strawberries]. I also have a really hard time with places that aren't transparent on their menus about foods due to potential allergies. Which means that while I would definitely send my husband here for a chicken sandwich, because he would love it, I wouldn't go back. Tonight with dinner I cracked open my first 903 can, Puft Daddy: Blackcurrant, blueberry, banana, coconut and marshmallow- which was a great cool down for my mouth after that sandwich. After the beer I started to be really sleepy and the soreness from driving really set in, so I decided for a night in so I can have a lot of energy for an early morning and full day on Saturday.
Day 15:
Finally got to sleep around 1am. Between the sirens and the block party someone decided to have around 12am it took work and meds to sleep. I woke up around 7:30 got dressed and walked to Cafe Du Monde. I even had Ice Au Lait (I no longer drink coffee, but when in New Orleans) I got an order of Beignets and mix for my mother and mother in law. I know this will likely be an unpopular opinion- but I didn't really like the Beignets and as someone who doesn't really drink coffee, I could have done without this. I think it was important for me to try it, but I have no desire to go back.
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I walked around the french quarter a bit on my way back to my airbnb, as I had clearly chosen the WRONG clothes for today. Tight fitting and not breathable enough. Also the bag of goods from Cafe du Monde was heavy. So as of 10:30 am I'd already walked 3 miles. I changed into looser fitting clothing in more breathable fabrics, drank some gatorade- refilled the water bottle before heading back out.
Round 2 added an additional 10,000 steps (Or 5 miles) to my day in the French Quarter. I went to 2 museums, and a church. Both museums had a lot of steps and I didn't see any elevators or lifts- which is disappointing.
Museum 2: 1850 house is just that, and provided wonderful insights into what it may have been like to live in the French Quarter in the mid 19th century.
1850's House |
5 photos of French Quarter included Marie Laveau's home |
By the time I made it back to my airbnb, I was hobbling. My feet definitely hurt. I decided to take a cool shower and a nap before my early dinner.
Round 3 was for an early Dinner at The Pelican Club. I ate WAY outside of my comfort zone having the Paella Style Jambalya for dinner- shrimp, duck, andouille, mussels, clams, calamari, crawfish, etouffee sauce, served in it's own pot. The only thing I didn't try from the bunch was the crawfish as the head was still attached and I don't eat things that still have a face. I had bread pudding for dessert and am now overstuffed. After dinner I walked down to the Mississippi River. As someone who grew up in Minnesota near the tippy top, it's cool to see this end of it, it's so much bigger down here. I then walked back to my hotel in a round about way through Bourbon street. It was only 7:30pm and already I was too overwhelmed. So many lights, and noise and people, my anxiety went to an 11 and my motor tics really started to spike. I had hoped to be able to listen to music, but it's just too overwhelming for me. And that's okay. I know myself. Round 3 added another 3 miles to my walking.
For those keeping up thats 11 miles today- the last 3 of which were in heels. I would like to request a double foot transplant please. But in all seriousness I am glad that the next few days are less about walking and more about seeing people.
AirBNB Review: It's a historic home that has been converted into several units in the heart of the Tulane Medical area. Honestly the included off street parking is what drew me to this place and more affordable than staying right in the heart of everything. However if you are coming to New Orleans with any desire of sleeping, this isn't for you. Sirens all day and night and lots of very loud neighbors.
Pros: Spacious, Modern, Large memory foam bed, well appointed kitchen (gas stove for those who can cook), AirCon and Ceiling fans, Laundry, Off street parking, Wifi, responsive hosts.
Having visited now, I don't know if I ever need to come back. The city is very overstimulating, there is a very distinct odor- similar to Paris- Urine, smoke (though mostly weed here), rotten eggs and regret. I can say I've done it. It's been checked off my list, but I don't feel the need to revisit it. Natchetoches on the other hand I will absolutely be returning to; much more my speed.
Alright, long post completed,
Signing off for now
-C
Friday, July 9, 2021
Day 13- Louisiana
I left Texas this morning, making a few stops on my way to Louisiana.
Today was my first real day of driving with a migraine. I always knew in planning this trip that this was a possibility. I've spent my whole life (Since age 2) living with chronic migraines. At this stage in my life I am averaging 2-5 a month- which is a huge decrease from where I was, but with 6 weeks on the road, I was looking at 2-7 migraines, so I guess I'm glad I made it to day 13. I was woken up at 12:30am this morning in incredible pain probably a 8 on my pain scale (check out the link if you are interested in my personal pain scale). I was able to get my meds on board and get back asleep. I work up and was now at about a 5, definitely still light and sound sensitive, but I could move.
For those that know me well, you know I don't let my chronic illnesses stop me. If I did I wouldn't be able to work. I have often taught with a migraine, I've gone to classes, taken exams, etc. But driving is hard.
- First there is the noise. Thankfully we have a newer car that blocks out a substantial amount of road noise. I also have made a personal choice throughout this trip to limit my time on the highway, so this has limited my noise as well.
- Second, there is the sun. My fix for this was a new pair of sunglasses for the trip. They have blue lenses, which is really calming for me and blocks out a lot of the harshness that is sun on pavement.
- Finally there is the pain. I've got meds that if I take them quick enough they cancel out a lot of the pain, even if they don't remove all the symptoms. Additionally I brought insta ice packs on this trip and they have again saved the day. By the time I ate lunch the migraine was reduced to a headache that was just a minor annoyance- about a 2. I'm glad today was a short driving day.
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Assortment of photos from Buc-ee's |
Union Missionary Baptist Church. , Jefferson, TX |
Stop 2: Jefferson, TX. I stopped because of the Union Missionary Baptist Church that is located there and the history behind it. I stayed because of all the cute shops and beautiful old buildings. If I lived in TX this would definitely be a cute place for a girls weekend. As it was for me this is where I stopped to eat my lunch.
Jefferson, TX |
Hotel- I was able to check into the hotel early, mostly just to get the beer in a fridge. It was still cold when I took it out of the cooler so that's good.
Stop 3: Melrose Plantation. This plantation has a history of strong women. First run by a freed slave, Marie Therese CoinCoin and her children she started with 68 acres gifted to her by her French lover, and father of 10 of her children Claude Thomas Pierre Metoyer, when he freed her, it grew over time after she got a land grant of 1000 acres from the Spanish. Her son founded a local church that is still active today and just down the road from the plantation. In her lifetime, she and her children had one of the greatest estates in the colony and own hundreds of slaves.
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Melrose, Plantation |
After numerous owners, it was purchased by a Mr. Henry and his wife, Carmelite Garrett Henry, she would go on to turn the estate into an artists commune, where writers and artists could come, live for free, so long as they complete their work on the property. The last artist on the property was Clementine Hunter, a primitive/folk artist whose art hangs in museums all over the world. She born a share cropper at a plantation down the road and moved to Melrose at the age of 13. She worked outside before moving into the kitchen. She continued to work even as she painted. She was unable to read or write having only 1 year of formal education.
*I strongly encourage you to research and learn about Melrose plantation and it's history, it's fascinating.
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St. Augustine Church Louisana |
Stop 4: St. Augustine Church Which was founded by Marie and Claude's Son Augustin. It was the first church founded by and for Freed slaves in Louisiana. A
portrait of him still hangs in the church. Clementine Hunter's final resting spot is also on church grounds after she died January 1, 1988 at the ages of 101
Dinner: Cane River Commissary- Worth coming to Louisiana all on its own. First of all the staff was amazing and so helpful. They suggested something Not on the menu that they call the Trinity- cup of gumbo, cup of jambalaya and a meat pie. It did not disappoint. I was worried the jambalaya would be too spicy, but it was just a kick, flavorful not overpowering. In fact is was my favorite dish of the night and as I drove back to the hotel and sit here now, I can't think of much I would like more than another plate of it.
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Jambalaya, Meat pie and Gumbo Cane Rive Commissary Natchez, LA |
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Natchitoches Historic District |
Stop 5: Front Street and Historic Natchitoches (Pronounced Nack-i-tish) It is so pretty and romantic. Makes me really miss my husband tonight as I watched a dozen couples walk hand in hand on the water, or take a carriage ride around the city. The city itself is the oldest in Louisiana having been set up as a trading post in 1714. The film Steele Magnolias was filmed here and the town clearly capitalizes on that as well as the many plantations and historical sites to visit. In just my mile walk about town I saw at least a dozen Bed and Breakfasts in historic homes. I would happily come back and visit. I've hear the fall is lovely.
Hotel Review: Fairfield Inn & Suites
Pros: Right off the Highway, mini fridge, microwave, free parking, breakfast included (and they did it well-still all individually packaged, but great variety, easy grab and go), TV, Desk with chair, 2 night stands with lamps, plenty of outlets, Sink in the bathroom, door automatically deadbolts, strong A/C, Clean, elevator, luggage carts
Cons: Flat pillows, shower door doesn't close correctly so the entire bathroom floor got wet, poor wifi (not enough to load facebook or instagram fully and my phone couldn't connect at all), Bed TOO firm (that's a really high bar for me)
Today started rough with my migraine, but I pushed through, accommodated myself as needed and am going to bed tonight sleepy and healthy having walked 5 miles today and going to bed with no headache at all.
Signing off for now
-C