When I am alone in my own home, I'm alone with my thoughts, that are non-stop and not always nice to me. So in getting divorced. I am doing my best to balance a social calendar- that means doing some activities alone but in spaces with people; (Concerts, taking myself to a movie, painting class) and scheduling things intentionally with people; (Art Events, trying new restaurants, game nights), while still making time for quiet downtime with just myself, because I do need that too- just not too much of it.
This month I'm scheduled for the follow things (Knowing that I will never do everything even if it's scheduled, but it's nice to have a plan)
1x Museum Visit
1x Paint Night
1x Brunch
1x Walking tour
1x Massage
1x Haircut
3x Concerts
9 Scheduled commitments this month. I'm sure there will be a few happy hours in there too. To some this probably seems like nothing, to others it may feel like too much. I'm trying to figure out what my balance looks like and feels like.
C
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