Wedding planning---a fun and stressful time

The act of getting married should be wonderful, but it is also so incredibly stressful and distracting.  I am glad we have a venue and a date and a caterer and a groom--he's kind of the most important part.  That takes a lot of the stress away.  But now the detail things are starting to set in.  Actually setting and keeping to a budget is setting in. Being firm in the size of wedding that I want, even if that means some people don't get a +1.  Setting up appointments and samplings and trials and photos and cards.  I realized this morning that with the amount that J travels, much of this is on me and me alone.  And then there's the fact I have a full time job.  My goal is to not think about planning while I am at work.  From 7-2 it's about the kids.  Try to keep me honest to that okay.