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Friday, December 29, 2023

Books to Read in 2024

I read A LOT in 2023. I discovered audiobooks and found a new means of being at peace. I'm not sure if I'll listen as much as I did in 2023, but I do have a lot of time in a car planned for a road trip this summer, so maybe I will.  Either way I wanted to put together a list of the first 15 books for 2024 that I plan to read in 2024. 

I have a special spot in my heart for historical fiction that centers female voices specifically connected to WW1 or WW2. I've also rekindled a love of fantasy books and have many on my too read list. 

Sarah J Maas: 9 books 

A Thorn of Glass Series: 7 Books

A Thorn of Glass, Crown of Midnight, Heir of Fire, Queen of Shadows, Empire of Storms, Tower of Dawn, and Kingdom of Ash

Thorn of Glass Novella- The Assassin's Blade

Next Book in the Crescent City Series: House of Flame and Shadow (Comes out Late January) 


Other Fantasy 

Forth Wing - Rebecca Yarros - Apparently there will eventually be 5 books

Realm Breaker- Victoria Aveyard - This is set to be a series as well- at least 3 books that I'm aware of.  


Fiction: 

The Mystery of Mrs. Christie - Marie Benedict - I've read all her other books

The President's Wife - Tracey Enerson Wood - I've read her 2 other works of historical fiction


Non-fiction: 

The Sisterhood- The Secret History of Women at the CIA- Liza Mundy - I loved Code Girls

The Girls Who Stepped Out of Line- Major General Mari K. Eder 




Tuesday, December 5, 2023

Books and Short Stories Update 5

 This blog is going up at the start of December. Eleven months ago, I made a promise to myself to discover books that made me excited to read (listen). I thought a goal of  365 hours would be a stretch, but I was wrong. I fell in love with stories. Stories of love, sadness, courage, revenge and so much more. I read my way through a few authors and will wait for them to put out more books and have found a few more to keep me busy for awhile a least.  I spent a lot of time with women in war, specifically world war 2; from the front lines to the skies, the women who cracked codes and those who kept life afloat at home. Things no one taught me in school, that could have made history so much more exciting to a younger me. 

Prior to this blog I had read 62 books and listened to over 400 hours. After smashing my first goal sometime during the summer I set a new goal of 75 books. Keep reading to see if I met that target. 


So here is my last update for 2023. 

63. House of Earth and Blood: Crescent City Book 1 As I waited for the Court of Silver Flames to come out on dramatized audio, I decided to try to make due with another series from Sarah J Maas.  Well this was more than making due this was incredible. I yelled and cried, had moments of flush and got completely hooked. Sarah J. Maas is an incredible writer an while this book took longer to get into than Court of Thorns and Roses, it held such a pull over me, that I couldn't put it down at the end.  Joy and life and death and pain and song and silence. What would you do for your friends? (1.2x)

64. House of Sky and Breath: Crescent City Book 2 Clearly I liked book one, since I moved on and quickly finished book 2.  This one is spicer and the sex scenes are much more vivid and intense than book 1 so be aware of that if it's not your thing, there are a handful of chapters in this book that will be troublesome for you.  But that's out of 78 chapters.  I am bonded to these characters and am very curious about what will come next. (1.4x)

65. A Deadly Education This series was recommend to me by a student.  PG fantasy. Think Harry Potter, but instead of 1 big adventure or creature to fight, its several each chapter. Took awhile to get into it, especially as it is a change of pace from Sarah J. Maas's novels, but it's still exciting. Rather than different houses, witches have different skill sets that they study around. Something is always after students to kill them with few making it to graduation. The main character El, is an embodiment of the worst of my negative self talk, I find myself hating her. Feels like you're reading someone's daily diary entries for most of the book. I don't think I love this series, but I like it enough to try the 2nd book in the series.  (1.3x)

66. The Last Graduate The 2nd Scholomance book following Deadly Education. This book got me.  I fell in love with the characters even when I hated them, when I wanted to yell at El specifically but even Orion. I love that everyone worked together for the betterment of everyone, even if it wasn't in their best interest. I listen to books a a quick pace (1.4x) but I still couldn't get the ending fast enough, and then I wished I hadn't.  

67. The Golden Enclaves The 3rd Scholomance book. Book 1 was meh, book 2 was good, book 3....I could not put this one down. The book starts with the sadness that book 2 leaves off with, the first half of the book had me biting my nails worried about what would come next, but without giving anything away, while it's certainly not a 'happily ever after' it's not a heart break either. I feel like I got to have my cake and eat it too with my need for their to be a reasonable conclusion and have her grandmother's premonition be true. 

68. When We Were Brave by Suzanne Kelman Not my first book by this author. I earlier read "When the Nightingale Sings" which I enjoyed very much. Similar to many books I read in the spring  of this year. This piece of historical fiction centers around the role of a female spy during WW2. Juxtaposing her story against that of a great niece who uses the lessons she learns from her journey of family discovery to men her own heart. 

69. In Praise of Difficult Women by Karen Karbo - My very needed reminder that following my own compass and code is what matters, even if that makes me "difficult" The book shares a brief background of 31 difficult women, what led them to their work and insights into some of their reasons for why. I think if I own a paper copy this is something I would pick up to read just 1 woman every so often, but in the audio format it was easy to listen to one on the way to work and one on the way home. (1.8x) 

70 My Own Devices by Dessa not chronological, but rather thematic. Part memoir part therapy session, "My own Devices" gives me a behind the curtain peak into the life that inspired the art that helped save my life. I feel like I grew up with her. Her music lighting the road sometime less traveled as I experienced joy, and heart ache- mostly heart ache. I get it now, or I get more of it now. 

71. Ike and Kay by James MacManus The possibly maybe partially true story of Dwight Eisenhower (Ike) and his driver/personal secretary during WW2 Kay Summersby.  There is much debate on if there was actually an affair, but it was clear to all they did care for each other.  He took her from her job as a Chauffeur to being his personal secretary for the war and aided her in getting her US citizenship. But regardless of if they had an affair or not this book was a fun listen. Not fantastic writing, but a good quick listen. 

72. The Soldier's Girl by Sharon Maas. A female spy for the SOE in the Alsace region of France/Germany during WW2, whose job becomes unbearable as her achilles heal- her compassion regardless of heritage causes her to find love in a German man. This book is well written, and is an enjoyable listen, but far more fiction than history. 

73. The Woman in Me by Britney Spears I'm glad she finally got to tell her side of her story. We may never know all the truths of the horrors she was forced to endure in her ridiculous conservatorship, but I'm so glad she gets to decide her future. 

Are there parts I wish to know more of, sure, but that's the legal stuff and I can get updates on that from youtube commentators and in the end she owes us absolutely nothing. She owed this book to herself we should all just be grateful for the little bit she let us in for. 

74. Court of Silver Flames This is the link to the Audio Book, but I listen to the Dramatized Audio. Nesta's perspective is so very different, the trauma is real her distinctly adult coping mechanism is the spiciest Maas book yet (in my opinion).  This book is her story of coming into herself, but it is not a stand alone, you need the knowledge of the previous 4 books in the ACOTAR series for this to make sense. I'll be honest maybe a bit too happy of an ending. I feel like she tied it into a bow and then untied it just so she could write another book. I'm not disappointed about getting another book, or a few, but I feel it could have been done better. It's the only part of the writing that was a bit of a let down. 

75. The Basic Laws of Human Stupidity by Carlo M. Cipolla is a quick little read; but you'll probably want to read it a few time before considering it actually read. The 74 page book (yes I actually read this one) breaks down 5 primary laws of human stupidity and how individuals and society respond to or are impacted by the 4 types of people (intelligent, helpless, bandit and stupid). While I don't think you can take a book like this as gospel, I don't think it would be wise to dismiss it out of hand either. 


Current Reading Data: 582 hours on audio books and 2 paperback books. 




Friday, December 1, 2023

2023 Favorite things

 The reason I am posting this on December 1st rather than January 1st, is because holidays are coming up and you may decide that you or someone you love could use one of my favorite things. 

Many of these products have been around since long before this year, but these are products I love and have used throughout the year. 

Kitchen Stuff

Owala FreeSip I have 2 in the 24oz size because that's what's right for me, the others feel too heavy. I use to have a really hard time getting enough water, because I prefer to drink through a straw, but hate that I would always knock it over and make a mess. This solved that problem. I now get at least 48oz of water every day and don't need flavor packets any more to do it.  Not that I would put any electrolyte mixes in these anyway they are just water. The color options are fun and I like that I can clip it onto a bag or put it in the water bottle sleeve on my bag.  

Stasher Bags  I LOVE these. I got them for camping I take some food out in them and use others for left overs. I typically make enough at night for dinner to have lunch left overs for the next day. At home I use them for fruits The half gallon bags are large enough for a small seedless watermelon or cantaloupe sliced up. I know they seem a little pricey, but I truly believe they are worth it and if you watch for sales you can find them for less. 


Other Home Stuff

Pillow Cube I have been converted. I am a side sleeper and after 2 camping trips where my neck really hurt, and even my normal pillow didn't seem to do the trick, I bit the bullet and (thankfully it was on sale) purchased the pillow cube. I have the standard height 5" It took probably 2-3 nights for me to adjust to sleeping on it. I was use to putting my arm under my pillow for more support, but don't have to with this, but even during the learning curve I woke up in less pain and better rested. 

Power Scrub - Seriously can get out any mess in my bathroom tub, sink or countertop, it's easy to use and the Scrub mommy Sponge is a repurchased item in my cleaning arsenal. 


Books 

I did A LOT of reading this year. If you want to check out my thoughts on all of the books I've read, you do can that throughout my blog. But I thought I'd share a few favorites here in no particular order. 

Agent 355 This Amazon Original introduced me to the writing of Marie Benedict, whose entire repertoire I have gone on to read. It also started my journey of reading about bad ass women during wars.  It's short and easy to get through and I strongly recommend it. 

Flight Girls Women who played critical but not often discussed roles in the WW2 war effort inside an aircraft. 

Code Girls Most people have heard about The Enigma Code from the famous movie The Imitation Game, but this book, focuses on the pacific front code breakers, many of whom were women primarily from teachers colleges. 

America's First Daughter The life and very trying time of Patsy Jefferson- Daughter of Thomas Jefferson. So often in history the burden is laid on the women of strong men, this is no different. 

Personal Librarian Race, gender, bigotry, hate and the privilege that lighter skin brought especially at the turn of the 20th century. Belle whose brilliance is always a little dimmed with the fear she'll be found out. 

Court of Thorns and Roses series- specifically the Dramatic Audio versions of the books. Its like listening to a movie, the books came alive inside my mind.  These are spicy and may not be appropriate for delicate ears. 

Clothing

Brooklyn Ankle Pant- Athleta These are my new favorite pants. I have 2 pairs already and will probably get another pair soon. They come in tall and petite so you can find a pair that meets your needs. I wear a Tall 12. They are light weight easy to move in and great for home, work and date nights. 

Bodhi Jumper Is this expensive? Yes. Is it 100% worth the money?  Yes. It's so comfy no sensory issues and I don't need a bra. 

Outdoorsy Stuff

America The Beautiful Pass is $80 annually and will get you into every national park, national forest and a slew of other sites. Over the years J and I have shared a pass though during my summer road trip in 2021 we each had our own; and I will have my own again this coming summer for another road trip. It has always been worth it- usually within a few weeks of purchase each year. 3 trips to a National Park (because it covers the whole car) and it will save you money. 

Beauty Stuff

Silicone Back Scrubber I've always liked the concept of a loofa on a stick, but am really grossed out by the fact that they harbor bacteria and the like.  Enter a silicone option.  It is top rack dishwasher safe, makes me feel squeaky clean and is bendable to help me reach that 1 tough to get to spot on my back that ALWAYS itches.  I also had a few injuries this year that made reaching over my head challenging, and the bigger nubs helped with cleaning my hair as well. This is a great adaptive tool that I think a lot of people can benefit from. 

Viori Shampoo Bar- I am only recommending the shampoo. I did not like the conditioner bar, I felt it left a film or residue on my hair. The shampoo however is wonderful. My hair feels healthy, my scalp feels clean and I love that its in a bar form as that's so much easier for me to travel with. I have the unscented one.

Health/Wellness Stuff:

Yoga Nidra: Sleep Yoga Specifically this podcast series through audible. My favorites are Ski Hike, summer, Ocean and Jungle, and Desert.  These are 30 minutes I set the sleep timer on my audible, follow the instructions they give me and I've never had any memory of completing it. This has truly changed my life when it comes to sleep. I have other things that still create barriers- hyperfixation, time blindness, etc, but when it comes to help falling asleep this is a great option

Travel pill box I am now this old. All jokes aside, I have a lot of medical issues that require different meds. I don't want to have to carry around 5 different bottles all the time. I fill this up 1-2 times a month and it fits in my epi pen pouch along side the pens and my inhaler. It's a bit of a tight fit, but it gives me peace of mind to know I have all my things should I need them. And the Pouch fits in all of my purses as well. 

Self-Heating Eyemasks- A bunch of different companies make these. And I love them. They are so relaxing and can help me fall asleep on those tension headache- it hurts to close my eyes- sort of days. They are also really nice in the winter when you want a bit of extra warmth as you fall asleep.  

SleepCalm- Sleep aid In the latter part of this year I started using homeopathic options for pain, allergies and sleep. After years of trying so many different prescription and OTC drugs I thought I'd go for something more simple. I'm still trying to figure out what I think about the headache pain and allergy options, but what I can say is that this sleep support works. It worked night one and has worked every night since. I wake up feeling rested in a way I typically don't during the school year. 

Blowfish for Headaches - When I'm in the middle of a work day and I get a head ache 2 things are usually true: 1 I need more water 2 I need caffeine.  In Blowfish I solve both problems with some pain killer mixed in for good measure.  2 Tablets dissolve quickly in water and start to improve my quality of living in as quickly as 15-20 minutes.  


Food and Beverage:

Ben & Jerry's "Milk" & Cookies is my Dairy Free ice cream of choice. I also love American Dream, but this reminds me of my favorite oreo ice cream as a kid but even better because it doesn't make me sick.